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What's the difference between being attached and being clingy?


I can't differentiate between the two when I'm love...when I love her, I want the whole world to revolve around her, and I'm obsessed about her and I believe with all my heart that's she's God!

Attachment is having the emotional part of love, the whole-heartedness perhaps, it's the way a mother and a child feel, or a child and a mother.

Clinginess is more of an annoying trait perhaps. (it depends on the person, some people overlook it) It interrrupts people like when theyre busy. I know the feeling but we gotta hav healthy feelings.

First off, get over the clingyness now! If your cling on to someone you appear desesperate and you stand a bigger chance of losing them. I understand that when you love someone, you want her to beleive that she is important to you but you can do this without being obsesive about it. You must understand that you are both individules with your own lifes. If you smother a fire it will die and the same goes with a relationship. Just have fun with the relationship, Let her have her life and space while you have yours. Go out and have fun with each other, enjoy life and be your own person. You can still let a person know that you love them with romance and to be there for them everyday. But each individual needs space whether you are dating, engaged or married. Don't smother, just enjoy your days together as two people.

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