What is the best way to breakup with your bf without feeling guilty?

if he didnt do anything to hurt you but you just grew out of love. how do you leave him

tell him the truth

Do not make it out to be his fault. Just tell him how you feel and always be honest. People respect honesty over anything else. Do not play games and do not beat around the bush. Tell yer bf exactly how you feel. You never know he may have the same feelings and may just be too afraid like you are to say anything. The worst relationship can last forever if you do not do something about it before it goes on and on. What you do not want to do is cheat on him thats the worst thing you can do. You need to make a clean break and move on. Yeah you may feel guilty for a lil while we all do. BUT, in time he will find someone new and will find happiness again. BUT, if you do not love him anymore and do not want to be with him you need to tell him so because if I knew someone didnt love me anymore I certainly would NOT want to be with that person any longer, I mean what's the point. Ya know what I mean?!?

look sometimes if you need to tell your bf that you dont wanna be together anymore jus let him no. i was in that situation b4 and i told his friend to tel him(biggest mistake, don do that) and it was good to jus git it of my back and show him y i dont have feelings for him and if he asks if u like someone else no matter what say no! jus let him no that u dont feel the love anymore and that u should jus be friends...dont go with the its not you its me. dont worry telling him how u feel will be great!

Just be as honest with him as possible. At least that way you know that you didn't keep anythign from him.

You will feel guilty no matter how you tell him because you are the one leaving. Be honest without a lot of examples or details about why he is so wrong.

Are you sure you can't be in love again? It's so often that jump ship when that lovin' feeling is gone. The feeling of love is an emotion, therefore has ups and downs. You can choose to be in love but that takes more work and effort.

just tel him i dont thinkits working out anymore....i think we ought to break up....TELL HIM

break up fast and do it in front of alot of people

There is a saying, "The truth shall set you free". It may
not be easy breaking up with someone but you got to do it.
do it in love. Go easy on him. Most men can handle a break
up. Some will cry and beg. Whatever you do just go easy.

TEXT HIM AND MIAL HIM HIS STUFF HE/SHE LIVES WITH U
THE EZEST WAT


TEXT HIM/HER TAHT U BROKE AND WE ARE DONT AND MAKE IT LOOK UR SORY

AND THATS IT

The best and fairest way to break up with him is to tell him the truth, and to do it gently - whether you feel guilty or not is something no-one can tell you or predict. Breaking up with someone is always hard but at least this way you are doing the right thing by him and not taking the cowards way out to save yourself from feeling un-easy. He deserves your honesty.

However you do it he will be hurt but it clearly has to be done if you have reached the stage where it isnt worth saving.

On the basis that you are going to hurt him anyway why not do it live on national T.V and really twist the blade. At least then he will hate you, because if you try the "lets be friends" routine he will think that he still has a chance, and thats cruel.

There is nun but one ask God to help you pray to him he is there for you all ways every day he is beside you i promis

the truth or the "its not you, it me" routine

Just be honest with him. I know from personal experience that you always feel better afterwards when you know that you have been completely honest. It's just a feeling that you have. Sometimes you just know that is not the right person for you so it's better to be honest that way you both can move on with life and see what else is out there to explore. Just tell him that it's not fair to him to continue with things. That he deserves the truth.
Have faith in yourself and you will do fine.

do it fast, do it clean, dont bring up bad stuff and dont pick a fight. just simply tell him and dont drag it out. it will only make it harder. if you must give a reason make it short, direct and as pianless as possible. afterwards. move on fast and leave lil room for discussion. it will heal faster that way

as long as you are being honest with him and honest with yourself, there is nothing to feel guilty about. you probably still love this person, but you are not in love with him. you may feel bad about hurting him, but that is because you have compassion and still care about him. the best advice i can give is to be true to him and yourself. in the long run, you'll both be much happier.

There is nothing you can't do, if you liked/loved this person it is going to hurt, the same for him, he will be hurting. My advise it to put it this way: Ask him if he loves you or likes you, if he says yes, then ask him why he wouldn't give you space to figure out what you want, tell him that time will tell if you are meant to be. If he says no, then you owe him no explanation. If you are young then you can use the excuse that your are young and you need to find yourself and that you want to find out what makes you happy and that it is important for him to do the same. Life is all about choices, don't regret doing things that you think are right and that will make you happy.

why do you want to breakup if you are guilty????

Do something gross like pick you nose and stick your finger in his mouth. Keep doing it until he tells you that he can't be with someone who eats their boogers.

You shouldn't have to feel guilty if you know you're doing the right thing, but tell them the truth.

Dye your hair blue

Just be very open and avoid utterances that might hurt his self esteem. Make him know that the breakup is not as a result of something he did but that you'd want to be on your own. Avoid saying you don't love him anymore. He will be wondering why for the rest of his life. If he is a good guy, you do not wish that on him.

tell him the truth, and if u really don't like him anymore u shouldn't feel guilty because love has nothing to do with guiltiness.

Talk to him about it! And be honest; if you're not honest, you're likely to feel worse about it and it won't have the right feeling of closure.

there is no way of breaking up with him without hurting him if he really feels you you should talk to him first because he might feel the same way you do but after that its best that you come out and tell him because the longer you wait the longer he will hurt

This is a tough one. No matter how you break up with him, it will feel bad. I will give you a few tips however. First of all be real honest with him. Explain to him that it was no one thing he did, you just don't feel it. Answer every question he has as honestly as possible. Also, realistically, expect that you won't be friends once you two break up. It will be hard for him especially if he still loves you.

You will feel guilty if you dont leave him

Be honest, explain your feelings. Also if you feel guilty, then perhaps you need to take another look at why you want to break up with him. Maybe, what the issues you are having can be fixed by talking it over with him. You can not fix anything if you do not talk about it.

there is no EASY way to break up after a seireus relashionship, but you can tell him how you feel and see if he feels the same. tell him that you dont think that things are going good. say that we need to have some time to be single and alone. hopefully he will understand, and if he dosnt well he doesnt deserve you any way! make sure to say you still want to be friends. good luck!

you should not feel guilty breaking up with a boyfriend, this is why we have boyfriends before we have husband, the more men you try out the less likley you are to divorce when you get older and marry.

If he doesnt understand that you out grew him , that is just one more reason for you to not be with him.

LIVE LIFE TO THE FULLEST!

Cheat on him "NO joke" if u reeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeealy want to end it wit him