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What is the fastest way to recover froom a break up?


I really love this guy, he broke off with me when i said that i wont sleep with him until the time is ready... he said i dont love him that much, its still getting on my nerves plus i really my confidence is damaged, how can i get back to my feet fast, cause my studies are suffering big time!!!

Be around family and friends and keep yourself busy ALL the time! Take up new hobbies or join a club. Anything to take your mind off him. On those lonely nights, pamper yourself to a good box of chocs, a glass of sweet red wine and watch the funnies. Chocs are scientifically proven to be a happy drug :-) Oh and you can always sit yourself down with a pen and paper and list down every thing that was wrong with him e.g how bad his fart smelled! Hahaha.
Good luck dear and I'm proud of you for sticking with your i'm-not-ready-for-sex principles!

God I know what you mean, some men are so cheeky, good on you for sticking to your principles. That says strong woman!!
Quality time with people who really love you - for who you are, not what you will or won't do for them.
Treat yourself to a hairdo or facial so you remember how gorgeous you are, get yourself all tarted up and paint the town red with your best mates. Perv at all the talent out there that you're allowed now!!
You'll be fine! Keep being that strong, principled woman!!

go with your friends to the mall (girls) and hit on some guys to raise your confidence and then get a new guy

well the fastest way is going out and not be trapped in the past forget everything that happend and remmember that not just because you loved him to life if he broke up with you for that stupid reason he wasn't made for you and also get to know new people and knowing there are other people in the world tha know how mportant it is not going to bed just like that cheer up it's not over yet live the life no matter what

Lets face it. all guys want is to get in your pants! ahh. if he really loved you, he would of waited for you to be ready not preassured you or left you. trust me, i learned the hard way...and the hard way sucks. i mean i thought i really liked him and i thought he really liked me but in the end all he wanted was in my pants.
my advice(which isnt that god because i can never follow thru on it) try as hard as you can to forget about him and just have a good time w. your girls. and whenever you see him make sure you shoot him the 'you really hurt me look' and hold it on him for a good while then slowly look away n try not to just bounce back to pure happiness.
good luck!

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