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What are the chances of a married man to devop an emotional attachment to wards a female friend?


Can this happen if they spent too much alone time to together?
I have a friend who is married. He sometimes complements me on my appearance and he tells me am attractive.

Now this could go either way. Sometimes compliments are open doors; its up to you to close it. Respect yourself and he will have no other choice than to respect his marriage vows; at least with you. But I understand, getting compliments is nice especially when you don't hear it often. Put that man in his place though

When two people work closely together there can be some emotional attachments. If this is happening, you will have to do everything in your power to keep the restraints on. If the man is married, the last thing you want to do is confuse the situation and trouble it with your own feelings. That can only lead to trouble for everyone involved.

Of course just think back to any relationship that you ever had, you start out as friends and get to know each other then you start getting more deeper feelings for each other and then before you know it your a couple. I would stay away from this married man if you are worried anything may happen. Don't be the "other women" or home wrecker. You are better than that don't even think about it unless he shows you a divorce decree or at least if he has moved out of his house and isn't living with his wife anymore. Don't be that person who gets caught up in someones Else's marriage because you know that 90% of cheating husbands never leave their wives even though they keep saying that they will. Good luck.

Chances are pretty good if his moral standards are low. It also seems to me you like his compliments and maybe the cause for his advances towards you. Do you have an axe to grind against his wife? Does he? With so many single men available, I suggest you lean towards that, as fooling around with married people will get you nowhere. Besides, what makes you think he wouldn`t fool around elsewhere once he`s had you, if he`s willing to mess up his marriage in the first place. Once a cheater, always a cheater! And he`s only cheating his self in the long run. A little extra on the side is just not worth it, especially if he`s cheating with someone illiterate (DEVOP) hmmmm.

There is such thing as emotional cheating. If this married man is getting too close to another woman and is starting to emotional ignore his wife, it may cause huge turmoil in thier relationship. It can also lead to physical cheating which is also bad. Maybe you should back off for a bit, to see whats really going on. Talk to the wife, if she has no concerns then everythings good.

Why are you spending time alone with him the man is married some time is fine but to much is not right tell hem to go home you should be spending it with both and if he tells you why say go home to your family the Grass is always greener on the other side but it gets brown to when it's not taken care of . would you like your man to spend time with a girl friend groups kid keep the peace

I don't think there is any "set-chance" based on men in general. This is going to be different depending on the man. Some men have affairs, and are easily strayed away from their home life and wife. Others are deeply in love, and wouldn't mess with it for the world. I think a man with an unsteady marriage and no children would be more likely to stray than one who has a solid marriage, children possibly, etc. You basically have to judge based on these kind of things. I'm not condoning ANY extra marital affair, if that is what you're looking for with this man.

Sadly, it entirely too common. I see this a lot when people work together. As a matter of fact, it happening to several people where my husband is employed. It has even caused three divorces so far.

But, it also happened with a neighbor of mine. We were just friends....I was friends with the whole family. I watched their kids, had them over for birthday parties..etc. Well, one night when while his wife was out of town, he stopped by to "borrow" something...seriously. He made his intentions of what he wanted to borrow very clear.

I was married, he was married, we both had children, and I believe married men/women are just off limits. I stopped spending so much time with them after that. I wasn't in the happiest of marriages at the time, but cheating was not going to be the reason for my divorce....it was for his though, but not with me.

It's very possible, just the same as it is with wives who spend too much alone time with other men. There's no problem with having friends of the opposite sex, but my husband and I don't put ourselves in situations where we are alone with them, it just doesn't seem right to us.

It's really easy to be attached to somebody other than your husband or wife. Indeed, maybe he is attached to you. You should talk to him, ask him in what way though. :) And he could be married or single and still tell you you're pretty or atractive. There's no problem with that, just make sure it doesn't go too far. Talk with him. That's simply the best thing.

Huh, I'd say about 99% chances. Yup, he's into you.

You can either, a) cool off the relationship, taking it back a step or two, or b) make his desires come true and bang him like a gong. Either way, your friendship is headed for a sharp turn for the worst

I'd say the chances are HUMONGOUS. Don't you? May be you're sending signals yourself? Don't become the other women that's not fair to the wife. He may just be giving an innocent compliment because he knows you appreciate it but it's what YOU feel that could change friendship to an affair.

My Ex started flirting with the woman in the next office building. It became a full fledged affair. Be careful! When they start complimenting, it can only mean their on the prowl. That's why he is now my Ex. He left for her, but Gosh do I believe in Karma.

There shouldn't be any chances. You are playing with fire, and if he was really your friend and you really gave a crap about him, when he tells you these completely inappropriate things remind him that he is married. Walk..no RUN away from this situation now!

It's very possible. He might not even realize he's doing it. If you spend a lot of time with anyone, you can develop and emotional attachment.

Your best bet would be to stay away... You shouldn't be spending so much alone time with a married man anyway... Unless of course his wife is also present and it sounds like she isn't.

Stay away from him......You will just feel used when his wife finds out about your little "friendship" and he drops you like yesterdays news.


When are you women going to learn?!

If you are hot, then expect people to tell you. It comes with the territory:)

Sounds harmless

anything is possible

it is very possible

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