What is the difference between before marriage and after?

I have seen many people who are just fiancee and aren't married yet but have given birth. If they have given birth before marriage so what's the use if she married?

Please help me correct the sentence please.

English is not my mother tongue.

Thanks!

In this day and age, not much!

If the couple eventually gets married, it won't really matter. The child may get made fun of when they are young but kids are cruel anyways.

The most important thing would be if mom and dad love each other; not when they got married.

Marriage is about two people making a commitment to spend the rest of their lives together. It has nothing to do with making a baby.

People make babies out of wedlock everyday. Some don't even really know each other when they do it!

Marriage is about the couple, not about the child. The child should still be loved and protected regardless of their parent's relationship status.

HUH??????

well i gave birth b4 i got married,but i got married b/cos i love my partner very much and i wanted to commit to him and show him how much i care,every1 is different some r happy 2 stay unmarried wile others feel the need or just want to.
also marriage binds the family together legally.

you should legalise your marriage

to put some legality to it. i know you are thinking "why buy the cow when the milk is free?". when a baby becomes involved it changes things dramatically. it would then be time to settle down and make it work.

Before marriage, the men show their good side, after marriage, they don't care if you don't like them.

Sorry, not being funny, but your powers of expression need some improvement. Is English your mother tongue? In any event, your question has little substance ..... married or otherwise, people simply have to be responsible to become parents.... marriage does not guarantee that nor that they will be good parents.

Hi Box,
Don't worry about your english you have writen enough for us to understand some of what youare asking. Besides many English people cannot ask questions correctly !!!

I think youmay be refering to morality here and the differences which society places on the marriage ???

In many parts of the world marriage doesn't really mean as much as it did years ago.
Marriage was asacred act and having children out of wedlock was illegal and both the mother and child were shamed.
however, thankfully, this is mpre relaxed nowdays and there is no shame on the mother or child in being born out of wedlock ( marriage)
Marriage is also legally binding and ti brings with it rights when a partner dies- although this is changing for unmarried couples- I don't know much about this aspect though.

I hope this helps you???

normally i say nothing changes.. but if children are involved this changes.. do a little research.. when a woman is not married to the father she has 100% custody of the child.. he has to pay child support when they split up but she can say if he get to see the child.. unless he takes her to court.. now if they are married and split up they have to go to court to get a divorce and then the papers are drawn up so he has his rights to the child.. if there is more than one child he can ask to claim on for taxes.. as a unwed father it is up to the mother to let him if she wants to.. see where i am going with this.. children and taxes give the mother who never married extra money and the father diddle swatt.. mainly because in most states unwed fathers have no rights until they go to court and legimize their children..

it depends what marriage means to the individuals involved,personally to me a marriage means you legally are/want to be together,marriage doesn't matter in this day n age,the world changes and life goes on,its just another type of contract between a man and a woman!i don't do the religious thing about marriage.

May I suggest one possible correction?

I know of many unmarried women who have children. Why should these women get married?

marriage is a commitment made infront of family and friends
it allows you to feel totally comfortable in the situation of living together and be more responsible in making a commitmnt emotionally and financially to the upkeep of your abode
and to bring up children within that institute
for the minority who are very secure living together is an option as we see more and more

but marriage is a big deal and more difficult to get out of

Because they love eachother. Marriage is not strictly for virgins.

BJs

wHEN YOU ARE LIVING TOGETHAR BUT NOT MARRIED THIS IS WERE YOU ARE COHABITTING WITH ANOTHER PERSON HOWEVER AFTER MARRIAGE YOU HAVE SIGNED A CONTRACT THAT YOU SHALL BE TOGETHAR FOR EVER UNLESS YOU WANT A DIVORCE......