How do you start over after your second divorce?

I am 27 and going through my second divorce. I have two little girls and I am scared to death about starting over. I haven't been alone in so long. I have my family and my kids, but I still feel alone. What do I do?

Take things nice and slow. The fact that you're a little scared about being alone says that you really aren't all that secure about yourself. Take the time to know yourself better and find out who you are. When you've done that (and it will take time) and are strong enough as a single person, you might be ready to be part of a couple again. Remember, when you meet someone, it's not only somebody who will potentially affect your life, but also your girls' lives as well.

Remember, it's better to be alone for the right reason than to be with someone for the wrong reason. Good luck.

Just date, it's perfectly alright to have a b/f...but live together first next time...for a long time...and remember one thing, pleeease. There is NO WAY anyone can say at 20..or 27..how they will feel about their lives at 40 or 50. My advise...don't marry.

The same way you did with the first one. Take it one day at a time and life goes on.

Stay single for awhile. Concentrate on your kids and your family. Being alone can be healthy. You don't have to have a man in your life to be happy. This will be your second divorce and your 27, maybe it's time to take a hard look at your life and what is going on in it. Remember your girls are having to deal with the divorce as well, so don't rush into anything.

You got through your first divorce and you will get through your second. You are not alone at all. Your family and kids are a part of you and that's something that no one can ever take away from you.

In times like these you need a higher power of support. I would pray to the good Lord above and ask him to guide you and place this problem into his hands. if you are a christian and live by his word..he will help. it may not be when you want him to answer but in time he will. Remember you are still young. you have your life still ahead of you.
having your family close by is wonderful. try and make friends and move ahead slowing and with guidance. and please pray.

I know how you feel but I been through marriage and divorced 4 times. It's not easy. I was married the 1st time when I was 15 y/o and now 43. Just got my last divorce 3 yrs. ago and that was the longest I was married to anyone 10 yrs. but the most miserable one ever. Yes I didn't date nor have anything to do with a man for 5 yrs. like 3 yrs before I got divorced and almost 3 yrs after the divorce. Till I found the man I'm with now. The guys I married before were very abusive verbally, phisycally, and emotionally, and they were all hispanics. So I promised myself that I would not date nor see another man in hispanic race nor a man that drinks nor does drugs. My man now is Black and doesn't drink, do drugs nor smokes cigs. but he's very hard to read sometimes. But I love him though. I just don't trust any man fully just yet. They all say the same thing no matter what color they are. That's just me. But yeah you get lonely but remember you don't have to answer to anyone now and you can come and go as you please. just date for now don't commit to anyone yet date for awhile. you'll like it.