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How much time passes after a divorce before a man start to actually feel lonely?


I'm wondering when the timing is right to date a man who's been divorced. I don't want to be a 'transition' girl, I want to be THEE girl.

Wait a year, most men will be over her(the ex) in a year and will likely be ready to start a new long term relationship by then. The girls they dtae in the meantime usually do not last and are like the guys women date for the first year, rebound sexual partners only..

Sorry! I misread that! LOL. I hope you didn't see what I posted originally. LOL

Coming from a divorced guy, it depends on why he was divorced. I divorced my ex wife because we where having problems for years. I didnt want to go behind her back, I was lonely for the last 3 years of my marraige, she had an affair while we where married. I was ready about the time I got divorced as she had already moved on, and I was emotionally ready to move on. There is a difference between being lonely and, being ready for another relationship that is going to be hassle free though. Put onto that that I have full custody of the kids then you have a real problem distinguishing whether your ready or not. My suggestion would be to have a relationship with him, but be patient and wait for at least six months to a year before he is really ready.

Most ppl who divorce were lonely in the marriage. But a good length of time is atleast a year. There needs to be enough time for that person to be comfortable alone. That is a hard thing to conquer...and some ppl jump in another relationship before they are ready! Good Luck!!

it depends on the person,some people are lonely during the divorce.

give him 2 years and it will be all right to date him.

It depends on the situation. If his marriage was "over" long before it was officially over then he would be ready for a relationship long before someone who was blindsighted over the split.

I wish you luck!

Everyone is different. Some men will never be lonely because they will just find someone else.

he may never .
if your waitin on him to miss you , your crazey !
dont put your whole life on hold to play his faithful little puppy .
trust me , hes not missing you like you are him .

In many cases, the 鈥榣oneliness鈥?commences before the divorce even begins !!!
There can be a lot of loneliness for both partners in a marriage. It is often the 鈥榣oneliness鈥?that leads to the need to get a divorce.

There is nothing to suggest that a man who has been divorced is going to feel 鈥榣onely鈥? It simply depends on how he chooses to get on with his life after the divorce. If he has family, friends, or past loves that he can get help from, then there is every possibility that he will not feel lonely !!!

You asked 鈥榳hen the timing is right to date a man who has been divorced鈥欌€?br> There is a step before the 鈥榙ating鈥?process鈥?
Letting him know that you are interested and available !!!

I don鈥檛 know how long you have known each other, but I would suggest that the sooner you let him know your feelings toward him鈥? the better.
Tell him how you feel, but leave the rest up to him !!!

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