www.todaysmodernwoman.com
*Home>>>Family

Was I wrong in the situation? URGENT!?

keywords: wrong,situation,URGENT

Okay, the fact that you went on her facebook because you were worried about her, doesn't give your sister any excuse to be mad at you. Yes, it was her facebook, but that really doesn't matter in this situation. She's doing drugs.
Your father probably doesn't believe you because he doesn't want to. He's probably just in major denial.
But, you need to tell someone. Go up another step, and call the police. If you have solid proof that she's doing drugs, and if she admitted it to you, then you definitely need to tell someone.
I know you're scared, and you don't want to lose your sister. But you might lose her permanently if you don't.
You're doing the right thing. When you're talking to your sister, don't let her change the subject. Just remember what your purpose for talking to her is.
But, please. Please talk to someone about this. And make sure that they will help you, and do something about the issue.
Hang in there. = )

Sorry this is long. Bear with me please!
Okay, so for a while now, I always had suspicions about my sister (15) doing bad things like drugs and drinking etc. And I heard from a lot of ppl it was true..but never had proof...now i always asked her about it, and she would make me feel like and @$$ for even "thinking about her doing something that terrible!" she swore to me she was a straight egde...
So finally, I needed proof...I needed closure. So...I hacked into her Fb...well actually I knew her password...not sure if thats hacking. haha. But I ffinally found proof..and she admitted to all of it...but ever the phone..not over text, and I told my dad, and he didnt believe me! My sister lives with my dad in the city, and I live with my mom in NJ. My mom and her dont talk. so my mom doesnt have any control over her...I really just want her to stop. So i finally confronted her. and like I said, she admitted to it. But then she turned it on me! She said I shouldnt have hacked her FB...and I should have just trusted her! BUT SHE WAS LYING! My mom knows the truth, but also like I said, no control. I told my sister that our relationship is now over bec she had guilt tripped me one to many times. andc then my dad turned on me, and was like "u shouldnt have gone into her FB...she doesnt do that kind of stuff...just stop" BUT SHE DOES. AND I HAVE PROOF BUT HE REFUSES TO ADMIT IT! So I am on a break with my dad...and my sister. ... Im really upset...its tearing me apart...what do I do...parents, what would you do? Kids, how would you feel? am i wrong here? or am i the victum? I dont wanna play victum,...but I feel that I AM the victum....opinions?

UHHH @1540
im pretty sure im not gonna face 8 YEARS IN PRISION. most likly, he did way more than just go in and say hi to ppl. and SHES BREAKING THE LAW TO, drugs a illiegal, so I say bring it on bitches.

Well I am learning that teen girls are so hard ( I have a now 13yr. old). Each teen is different. My daughter did something (not so bad) but it was a trust she broke so I made her take a drug test! I am proud to say it came out fine but now she knows at any time $40 is piece of mind for me! I feel they are not ready to choose for them selves what is right or wrong so whatever it takes, although you also must be there for them to feel free to talk . So you just have to find the line on your own that fits their personality. Also men much less dads do not like to hear the truth or they over react that also depends on their personality! GOOD LUCK!! Hard One!! Sorry!!

What you did is a felony. A man is facing 8 years in prison for using his wifes password to get into her facebook account. I think you better start apologizing in case she gets wise to this crime and turns you in.

tell another adult relative that you trust, that has a good relationship with your Dad and/or your sister...maybe they can knock some sense into one of the two.

I think it was the right idea to tell on her because it could be her life that might be pu on the line but for resolving the problem I think the only way you could get proof is to somehow get someone to take a pic of her doing the stuff and show that to your dad

ur a victim...and i think u were only trying to help...but unfortuanately some people prefer to learn the hard way...hey dont feel bad u were just being a great sister.

no

i think your the victim!

Tags
  Other - Family & Relationships   Weddings   Singles & Dating   Marriage & Divorce   Friends   Family   Other - Beauty & Style   Skin & Body   Makeup   Hair   Fashion & Accessories
Related information
  • I need help! My dad thinks...?
    Stop reacting to him when he gets in your face. Don't fight fire with fire. Simply explain that the idea of you watching porn is ridiculous and his behaviour is childish. Show him on the computer ...
  • Advice for a 21 year old with controlling parents.?
    Without disrespecting your parents, what you feel is actual natural, that sort of guilt we feel when we leave our parents behind and go out into the world. I felt it, but not as extreme as you. The only ...
  • How many guys would have their son take the fall for them?
    Just be yourself. It doesn't matter if it is not good enough for anyone else....
  • Ppl say things like "Youre dad would of been proud" but how can they really kno what if hes truly dissapointed?
    Where I come from, such is not said unless you have come up to or beyond what is expected by them. True, they are not your father, but they are of the same generation(?) and probably have the same attitudes. Yes, ...
  • What do you think about this?
    Yes of course...
  • I'm 19 and want to take my family of 7 on a well needed vacation?
    come to fort myers beach florida. we have a lot of family and kid stuff to do and our economy needs it. hotel rates are good here too! you could also go to busch gardens in tampa fl. and stay at mainsail. ...
  • *should i tell my boyfriend my horrible childhood? help!?
    Well if I were you I would tell him, I'm sure you love him a lot and he loves you back! If he really does love you than he will accept your childhood. Don't let this bother you, I am sure he ...
  • Living back at home with my parents has turned into hell! what do I do?
    Honestly, I think you should consider moving out and living on your own. Research may show that marriages are more likely to last if the wife doesn't "become her own provider" but that's ...
  •  

    Categories--Copyright/IP Policy--Contact Webmaster